The taboos you must know when making love
Sex in bed is wonderful, it is a kind of physical and mental enjoyment, but there are certain taboos in sex. Proper sex is good for health, improper sex is harmful to health, so how should we have sex? The following editor will explain to you a few A taboo on making love.
1. 11 o’clock in the middle of the night is not a good time
A survey of women found that, for the majority of wives, a husband’s delay in going to bed, or his offer to “soften up” when she was sleepy, elicited strong resentment from the wife. Therefore, for many wives at eleven or twelve o’clock in the middle of the night, it is not a particularly good time. According to the survey, 46% of women pointed out that they would refuse their husband’s sexual needs from time to time, just because “the other party did not ask for it at the right time”.
There are many reasons for “absence of sex”. For example, when a person is in a bad mood, his sexual desire tends to temporarily decrease. If the lover reluctantly copes, not only will it not be able to arouse pleasure, but it will also easily lead to sexual indifference and damage the relationship between husband and wife. “Especially if the woman is tired but has to cope with it, she is very prone to aversion to sex life, and may develop sexual frigidity or sexual aversion over time.” If you are tired, you can also tell the other party directly, “If you go to bed earlier, you will have more time to be lingering.” On the other hand, sex can be arranged on weekends that are not busy, so that the wife’s worries are removed.
2. It is not advisable to have sex when eating too much
After eating, the stomach and intestines need energy to digest and absorb food, so the blood supply in the stomach and intestines increases, while the blood supply to other parts of the body will decrease accordingly, which will affect male erections and normal sexual feelings. In addition, if you drink a lot of alcohol during meals, most women and some men will experience a decrease in libido, which is not conducive to sexual life.
For men, maintaining a firm and long-lasting erection during sex consumes a lot of energy and requires the cooperation of multiple organs. Among them, testosterone is very important, it can arouse male sexual desire and help complete erection. And a greasy, unhealthy diet will greatly inhibit the secretion of testosterone. Especially the formal western food with 5 main courses, the amount of oil is staggering, and it is likely to become a sex killer. But before sex, eating some carbohydrates can help improve the quality of sex. Because it can quickly replenish energy and maintain long-lasting erection. Therefore, you might as well eat some toast or potatoes before sex. People who prefer meat can also eat animal liver, fish or shellfish in moderation, but do not eat high-fat and high-calorie beef and pork.
Experts suggest that Chinese people can choose shrimp, sea cucumber and other foods that can help increase sexual desire before sex. Foods that invigorate the spleen and kidney such as black fungus and yam are also good choices. After eating, the body will be a little tired, which may affect the quality of sex at this time. Therefore, it is recommended to enjoy the pleasure of fish and water with your partner about one and a half hours after the meal.